Archive for May, 2008

when you dont know what to do…

 What to do when you do not know what to do, Read Gods word. Here are some suggestions

When in sorrow …. John 14
When people fail you …. Psalm 27
When you have sinned …. Psalm 51, 1 John 1:9
When you worry …. Philippians 4:6-9
When you are in danger …. Psalm 91
When God seems far away …. Psalm 139
When your faith needs stirring …. Hebrews 11
When you are lonely and fearful …. Psalm 23
When you grow bitter and critical …. I Corinthians 13
When you feel down and out …. Romans 8:39
When you want peace and rest …. Matthew 11:28-30
When you want assurance …. 1 John 1:12
When you leave home for work or travel …. Psalm 107:23-31
When you need courage for a task …. Joshua 1
When the world seems bigger than God …. Psalm 90
When you’re broke …. Matthew 6: 25-34
When you want to be fruitful …. John 15: 1-17
When you need to know how to get along with others … Romans 12

 

thought you all might like to read this too..i came across this today on a site…i want to check out the scriptures…and study Gods word….it helps me so much to stay focused and he always helps me to accomplish  my goals….because i know that he doesnt want me to be fat, and unhealthy….i know that he will guide me in this journey…just like when he helped me to quit smoking…i gave it to him and have not wanted or smoked one since……i know i can get into shape and be healthier with God on my side…..

THERES A LIGHT..AT THE END OF THIS TUNNEL

Well I won’t pretend to know what you’re thinking
And I can’t begin to know what you’re going through
And I won’t deny the pain that you’re feeling
But I’m gonna try and give a little hope to you
Just remember what I told you
There’s so much your living for

There’s a light at the end of this tunnel
There’s a light at the end of this tunnel for you
For you
There’s a light at the end of this tunnel
Shining bright at the end of this tunnel for you
For you
  > So keep holding on

You got your disappointments and sorrows
You ought to share the weight of that load with me
Then you will find that the light of tomorrow
Well it brings new life for your eyes to see
So remember what i told you
There’s so much your living for

There’s a light at the end of this tunnel
There’s a light at the end of this tunnel for you
For you
There’s a light at the end of this tunnel
Shining bright at the end of this tunnel for you
For you
So keep holding on
Keep holding on
[these lyrics are found on http://www.songlyrics.com]

So remember what i told you
There’s so much your living for

There’s a light at the end of this tunnel
There’s a light at the end of this tunnel for you
For you yeah
There’s a light at the end of this tunnel
Shining bright at the end of this tunnel for you
For you yeah
There’s a light at the end of this tunnel ooh
For you, for you yeah
Shinging bright at the end of this tunnel
For you, for you
So keep holding on
Keep holding on
Keep holding on now

You got your disappointments and sorrows
Im gonna try and give a little hope to you

For i know the plans….i have for you…

“…For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord,
“Plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future…”
Jeremiah 29:11

this is awesome! i was watching a show called Joni and friends on sky angel (christian cable) and there was this woman (Joni) and she has people on the show who are in wheel chairs, have cancer, etc… and still know that God still has plans for them…and the cancer or the wheel chair is part of their plans…..one guy is a pastor he got cancer and was wheel chair bound….his hands couldnt function to write anymore…his speech was difficult to muster at times….his breathing was affected….different things…but, still he had Hope and new that God had it all under control…so, he had to be a bit more creative when it came to preparing for his sermons ….but, he kept on preaching….even if it were only once a month…..everyone sees HOPE in him…and sees God working in his life…they dont feel like he is helpless….and just feel plain sorry for him….God shook his life up a bit….but, it was all to prosper him and to give him hope and a future ..not to harm him.

he is reaching so many people …even though he is now wheel chair bound….he didnt give up…

this was my first time watching this show…i just got sky angel the other day…and i love it…i dont like cable and alot of the channels that they provide…i do like hallmark…and some of the shows that help you to make over your own home….decorate and such…and sky angel has those…plus alot more awesome shows…and to get the entire package its only 24.99 a month…and you get the equipment for free if you sign up for 18 months…..i sound like a commercial…i know…and soon i may be selling it to make a little extra cash…..but, more importantly hopefully will reach many people with the Gospel of Jesus Christ….

he has changed my whole life!  the way i feel , the way i think, the things that i do…..and hes not done with me yet…

he is working on the way i look, and feel right now…thats why i know that i can lose this weight…because through him i can do anything!  All things are possible….with God !

I can do anything through Christ who gives me strength!

im off to work my butt..off…i will not end this week..without  a change in the scale for the good!!

LETS DO IT HEARTBREAKERS!!

So long self….

I love music…and here is another song…that i love……hope you love it as much as i do!

So long self…by Mercy Me

Well if I come across a little bit distant
It’s just because I am
Things just seem to feel a little bit different
You understand
Believe it or not but life is not apparently
About me anyways
But I have met the One who really is worthy
So let me say

So long, self
Well, it’s been fun, but I have found somebody else
So long, self
There’s just no room for two
So you are gonna have to move
So long, self
Don’t take this wrong but you are wrong for me, farewell
Oh well, goodbye, don’t cry
So long, self

Stop right there because I know what you’re thinking
But no we can’t be friends
And even though I know your heart is breaking
This has to end
And come to think of it the blame for all of this
Simply falls on me
For wanting something more in life than all of this
Can’t you see

Don’t feel so bad (don’t feel so bad)
There’ll be better days (there’ll be better days)
Don’t go away mad (but by all means)
Just go away, go away

RANDOM THOUGHTS …

HAD A GREAT WALK TODAY WITH THE KIDDOS…AND GEORGIA (OUR PUP) ATE WILD PLUMS WHILE ON THE WALK…..THEY ARE SO YUMMY…AND THERE ARE TONS OF THEM ON THIS ROAD….

DIDNT GET UP EARLY ENOUGH…WANT TO GET UP EARLIER…BUT, CANT SEEM TO GET OFF OF BUDDY SLIM AT A DECENT HOUR…. I WILL KICK MYSELF OFF AT 9:30 OR SO….EACH NIGHT…TO FIX THAT PROBLEM…

NEED TO GET UP EARLIER SO I CAN COMPLETE ALL OF THE THINGS THAT I NEED TO DO DURING THE DAY…WHICH CONSISTS OF…

WOG GEORGIA IN THE MORNING (BEFORE KIDS WAKE)

WATER PLANTS  OUTSIDE (AM AND PM)

WOG WITH KIDS AND GEORGIA IN THE AFTERNOON

PLAY WITH KIDS OUTSIDE (MY FULL ATTENTION-IGNORE BUSINESS CALLS AND EMAILS!)

CHECK IN ON MY ACCOUNTABILIBUDDIES , HEARTBREAKERS AND CHRISTMAS CHALLENGE PEOPLE!

JOURNAL MY FOOD FOR EACH DAY..

OF COURSE THIS IS ONLY A FEW OF THE THINGS THAT I NEED TO DO….

JUST A GENTLE REMINDER…

IM GOING TO WEIGH 139 BY 2009!

if we are the body….then…

 this is why i feel so badly for letting some of the heartbreakers slip away…i feel bad because i didnt reach out to them….and because sometimes my memory is so bad…it takes me awhile to even realize that they have vanished….. i have the memory of a goldfish sometimes…(30 seconds! and its gone!) i hope that you will take the time to read these lyrics…they are so true…and are good reminders of what we should be doing….

showing them there is a way……

It’s crowded in worship today
As she slips in trying to fade into the faces
The girls teasing laughter is
carrying farther than they know
Farther than they know

Chorus:
But if we are the body
Why aren’t His arms reaching?
Why aren’t His hands healing?
Why aren’t His words teaching?
And if we are the body
Why aren’t His feet going?
Why is His love not showing them there is a way?
There is a way

A traveler is far away from home
He sheds his coat and quietly sinks into the back row
The weight of their judgmental glances
Tells him that his chances are better out on the road

Chorus

Jesus paid much too high a price
For us to pick and choose who should come
And we are the body of Christ

Chorus

Jesus is the way

Cutting Back on “Bad” Carbs

Cutting Back on “Bad” Carbs

By:   Reader’s Digest

Ten ways to make low-carb healthy.

Thanks to the popularity of low-carb diets, nearly half of Americans say they are watching the amount of carbohydrates they eat. If you’re among them, we’re providing these 10 tips so your carb control is healthy and wise!

Bear in mind that there is a huge difference between Cheese Doodles and oatmeal. Both might be categorized as carbs, but their benefits are on opposite ends of the health spectrum. In the last chapter, we detailed the benefits of “good carbs.” Now it’s time to explain what a “bad carb” is. Here’s the simplest answer: white flour, refined sugar, and white rice. More broadly, any food made primarily of a carb that has been processed in such a way as to strip out ingredients that hinder quick and easy cooking. Why are refined carbs a problem? Easy: They digest so quickly that they cause blood sugar surges that lead to weight gain and other health troubles.

Here are some ways to avoid troublesome carbs while still getting the fuel you need for good health. Carb-counting meets common sense, right this way…

1. Tell the waiter to hold the bread. At almost every restaurant, your meal starts with a basket of rolls, breads, and crackers made from white flour. If it’s not put on the table, you won’t eat any. Or, if you really need something to nibble on, ask if they have whole wheat varieties.

2. At Chinese restaurants, ask for brown rice, and limit how much you eat to one cup. In fact, some Chinese restaurants have started offering to swap a vegetable for the rice in their combo dinners, knowing that many people are on low-carb diets. At home, always cook brown rice instead of white. Brown rice hasn’t been processed and still has its high-fiber nutrients.

3. Instead of bread, use eggplant slices to make a delicious sandwich. Broil two thick slices of eggplant until brown, then add mozzarella and tomato, olive oil and basil to one slice, suggests Nicole Glassman, owner of Mindful Health in New York City. Top with the other slice of eggplant and broil again until the cheese melts.

4. Wrap your food in lettuce leaves. Yes, skip the bun, tortillas, and bread slices and instead make a sandwich inside lettuce leaves. Glassman suggests going Mexican with a sprinkle of cheddar cheese, salsa, and chicken; Asian with sesame seeds, peanuts, bean sprouts, cut up green beans, and shrimp with a touch of soy sauce; or deli style with turkey, cheese, and mustard.

5. Buy old-fashioned snacks in kidsize bags. Truth is, pretzels, tortilla chips, potato chips, and cookies are mostly bad carbs, made primarily of refined flour, sugar, salt, and/or oil. You want to remove as many of these foods from your daily eating as you can. But if you can’t live without them, buy them in small bags–1 ounce is a typical “lunch box” size–and limit yourself to just one bag a day.

6. Break yourself of your old spaghetti habits. Almost everyone loves a big bowl of pasta, topped with a rich tomato sauce. The tomato sauce couldn’t be better for you; the spaghetti, however, is pure carbohydrate. While spaghetti is fine to eat every now and then, for those sensitive to carbs or wishing to cut back on their noodle  intake, here are some alternatives to the usual spaghetti dinner:

  • Here’s the easiest choice: Switch to whole wheat pasta. It is denser than  traditional pasta, with a firm, al dente texture similar to what you’d get in Italy.
  • Grill vegetables such as eggplant, zucchini, bell peppers, and onion and slice them into long, thin pieces. Mix up and pour your spaghetti sauce over the vegetables for a delicious and immensely healthy meal.
  • Substitute spaghetti squash for the pasta. Boil or microwave the squash until soft, then scoop out the seeds and pull the strands of squash from the shell with a fork.
  • Top with your favorite sauce and a grating of real Parmesan.
  • Try healthy whole grains as a replacement for pasta. Spaghetti sauce goes better than you’d expect on brown rice, barley, chickpeas, and such.


7. Cut up 1-ounce portions of cheese and divvy up 1-ounce portions
of nuts into tiny snack bags. Now you have a handy snack at the ready.

8. Eat potatoes boiled with the skin on. The effect of potatoes on blood sugar depends on how the potatoes are prepared. No need to unspud yourself completely! Also, new potatoes tend to have fewer simple carbs than other types of potatoes.

9. Eat lightly of the new low-carb products. More than 1,000 low-carb products were introduced in 2003, but the FDA has yet to publish any guidelines as to what “low carb” really means. Instead, many new “low carb” foods are to carbcutting what “low fat” cookies were to fat-cutting: just a new way of pitching foods high in calories and low in nutrient value. In fact, Consumer Reports found that many packaged low-carb foods are actually higher in calories than their regular counterparts. For instance, a serving of Keto’s low-carb Rocky Road ice cream has 270 calories, almost double the calories found in many regular ice creams and twice as much fat.

10. Think lightly of the new net-carb measurements. Many of the low-carb weight-loss programs are trying to get their followers to use “net carbs” as the measurement of choice for the appropriateness of a carb food in their diet. This is a measurement of the “bad carbs” left in a food after you adjust for those carb ingredients that don’t immediately affect blood sugar. The folks at Atkins Nutritionals say the proper way to measure net carbs is to subtract fiber (as well as sugar alcohols and glycerin, when applicable) from the total carbs listed on the nutrition facts panel of a product. But that’s just their version, and that’s the problem. “Net carbs” is not a regulated or standardized measurement–manufacturers can define it how they want, and say what they want on product packaging. And there is no science to say that tracking net carbs offers any unique weight-loss benefit.

ten ideas to a healthier meal!

 The Breakfast Routine

thought that i would share this with all of you buddy slimmers…very useful information…..hope you choose to use…and lose!
By:   Reader’s Digest

Ten ideas for a healthier meal.

There’s a reason they call it the most important meal of the day. Not only is breakfast the first food and drink your body has had in more than 8 hours, but studies find that what you eat for breakfast influences what you eat the rest of the day. Additionally, people who eat breakfast are significantly less likely to be obese and have diabetes than those who don’t.

The most important tip we can give you is to eat breakfast every day. Without exception. This one action alone can make a huge, positive difference in your health. But a doughnut or oversized muffin won’t do it. The key is to choose energy enhancing, health-invigorating foods. That’s what we’ll focus on in the tips ahead.

1. Be consistent with your portions. For most people, a perfect breakfast has three components: one serving of a whole grain carbohydrate, one serving of a dairy or high-calcium food, and one serving of fruit. Together, that would add up to roughly 300 calories. A high-protein serving (i.e., a meat or an egg) is unnecessary but certainly acceptable, as long as it doesn’t add too much fat or calories to the mix. Here are a few winning combinations, based on this formula:

  • A bowl of high-fiber, multigrain cereal, lots of strawberries, and low-fat milk
    on top.
  • A granola bar, an apple, and a cold glass of milk.
  • A cup of nonfat yogurt, fresh blueberries mixed in, and a slice of whole wheat toast with a fruit spread on top.
  • A mini whole wheat bagel, spread lightly with cream cheese and jam; a peach; and a cup of yogurt.
  • A scrambled egg, a whole wheat roll, fresh fruit salad, and a cup of low-fat milk.
  • A low-fat muffin, a wedge of cantaloupe, and a cup of latte made with skim milk.

2. Have a bowl of sweetened brown rice. Consider it a takeoff on prepared cereal. Brown rice is full of energy-providing B vitamins, as well as a great source of filling fiber. Cook the rice the night before, then in the morning, put it in a bowl with a spoonful of honey, a handful of raisins, a cut-up apple, and a sprinkle of cinnamon for a unique yet delicious treat. Don’t like rice? Try any of the cooking grains: barley, rye, red wheat, oats, buckwheat, quinoa, or millet.

3. Pour a cup of fruit smoothie. Simply whir a cup of strawberries and a banana in the blender, add a scoop of protein powder and a cup of crushed ice, and you’ve got a healthy, on-the-go breakfast filled with antioxidants. Toss in a cup of plain yogurt, and you’ve just added a bone-strengthening dose of calcium. An added bonus: You’ve just crossed three of your daily fruit servings off the list.

4. Use organic eggs. They’re not much more expensive than regular eggs but are much higher in all-important omega-3 fatty acids, shown to benefit everything from your mental health (reducing risk of depression) to your heart health (reducing risk of atherosclerosis and atrial fibrillation), says Fred Pescatore, M.D., author of The Hamptons Diet and a physician at Partners in Integrative Medicine in New York City.

5. Sprinkle on a teaspoon of ground flaxseeds. It could be over your cereal, over your yogurt, over your smoothie, or over your eggs. Next to fish and organic eggs, flaxseeds are one of the best sources of omega-3 fatty acids.
6. Use Benecol, Take Control, or Smart Balance instead of butter. These newly developed soft food spreads contain heart-healthy plant stanols. Just 2 tablespoons daily can significantly lower your total cholesterol level.

7. Have lunch for breakfast. Instead of butter or cream cheese, top your morning (whole wheat) toast with 2 tablespoons tuna prepared with low-fat mayonnaise. The tuna is a great source of omega-3 fatty acids and an excellent source of energy-boosting protein. For the same healthy boost with a bit of variety, try lox or canned or smoked salmon (they also seem to go better at breakfast).

8. Sprinkle a whole wheat burrito with 2 ounces grated, low-fat cheddar cheese and broil for 3 minutes. While it’s cooking, peel and eat an orange for valuable vitamin C. In this one small, quick meal, you’re getting vitamin C and other antioxidants, calcium, fiber, and enough appetite-satisfying protein to sustain you for hours.

9. Make your own granola. Most store-bought brands are filled with sugar and fat. To make your own, mix 2 cups rolled oats with 1 cup dried fruits and seeds and a little brown sugar. Toast 3-5 minutes in a warm oven and store in an airtight container. Not interested in do-it-yourself? There are a few store-bought brands with reasonable sugar and fat levels, including Nature’s Path and Familia.

10. Pour a bowlful of Kashi GOLEAN Crunch! With 10 grams of fiber, it will put you well on your way to the 25-30 grams of fiber you should be eating every day. Plus, studies find that people who regularly start their day with a bowl of cold cereal get more fiber and calcium, but less fat, than those who breakfast on other foods. Another study found that people who ate two bowlfuls of high-fiber cereal every day spontaneously cut the amount of fat they ate by 10 percent. Don’t like Kashi? Other high-fiber cereals include Raisin Bran, Multi-Bran Chex and Wheat ‘N Bran Spoon Size (8 grams), Kellogg’s All-Bran Original (10 grams), and General Mills Fiber One (14 grams).


okay..im at it again!

my dad is away at work for the next 7 days or so….the kids and i have the place to ourselves….. i think that we will enjoy the mini vacation…do some random acts of kindness…for the neighbors…..maybe pass out some cookies or something….

and im going to focus on my eating and do alot of jogging…and walking…and hopefully hit the gym…before i cancel it…(since i moved its too far away!) anyhow…since Cathy has taken over the HEARTBREAKERS…. i can focus on me …losing weight…and getting into shape…!

i have danced around 185 lately…i will lose a pound…gain a pound…maintain…but i always end up back at 185…but thats not too bad..considering..i havent seen 185 in awhile…i cant wait to see where i will be at the end of this week……or at the end of the month!! ah..i feel great..! everydays a new day!!  april

wanna be a HEARTBREAKER?

if you arent sure what im talking about..go to the forum…click on weightloss challenge….then look for the heartbreakers newest thread (number 13 this week) check out who we are and what we are doing..(we are a team that  supports, and encourages eachother , we weigh in each week…(saturday nights before 9 pm) this team is awesome and ..if you want to be a part of it ….then let us know you want to be a HEARTBREAKER !

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